Friday, April 10, 2009

baby daddy what?

My cousin is 18 and has 2 kids already. She does not have her first one because she did not want it(understandable since she was 16 when the kid was born!) her baby daddy's parents have her and the second one she isn't allowed to be alone with, I'm not sure why. Both are from different daddy's. In her defence, before I get started, her [baby #2 daddy] beat her and abused her and is mentally unstable(not to mention 8 years older then her!). Her second baby isn't even 6 months old and shes already with another guy because she was cheating on [baby #2 daddy] with him. Their relationship has only come out within the past week and she has been with [baby #2 daddy] up until an "it's complicated" 2-3 weeks ago.

Just from observing her actions when she has come to my great grandmother's when I have been there she doesn't even seem to want the child she has. She simply leaves her with our Aunt and takes off downstairs. Lord only knows how often she just dicks off away from that poor little girl.

This isn't a big deal but I am 99.9% sure she still does drugs to. I don't know what she does but I know she at least smokes pot and I only know this because I had a coversation with her in probably October and I did not know she was pregnant or had a second child(I don't know when she was born). Anyways, we had a discussion about how fun it would be to hot box my, at the time, new car. Right after she had baby #2 she stopped eating so she could lose the weight. Well, she lost the weight but she looks like hell and how stupid can you be! Especially since she was breast feeding!!! Good bye nutrience!

I don't know why all of this bothers me, but then yeah I probably do know why. It's obvious isn't it?

I'm probably going to add more later but anyways, I really don't think she deserves to keep the kid, either one. She is to young and immature. I think it is disgusting that she already has another boyfriend and that she was cheating on her baby daddy with this guy and honestly, she couldn't have worse taste but I guess she picks the ones that are easy and don't care if you're 18 with two kids because they're probably 30 with 10 kids or petifiles that beat woman!

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